The Reader 生死朗读
很出色的电影
更出色的原作
有需要的同学可以问我借书
行文很简单
200多页的书我只看了2天

只剩几页的时候
正好出地铁站
索性坐在站里的椅子上看完

"As I looked and looked, the living face became visible in the dead, the young in the old. This is what must happen to old married couples, I thought: the young man is preserved in the old one for her, the beauty and grace of the yong woman stay fresh in the old one for him. "

看到这段的时候眼睛有点酸
他纠结了大半生的女人
和他作为德国"Second generation of the Third Reich"
对德国的过去，现在，未来的思考、纠结一样
终于可以释然

其实那些爱，那些罪恶感一直都在
所以无需挣扎
更无需刻意逃离
甚至与其为敌

可是历史啊历史
使他无力承认
又不甘否认
他一字一句地
对着身在二战其中
但又置身世外的纳粹者朗读
这本社会的大书
又一次强有力地体会到Social context
在文学作品中的重要性
不知同为二战战败国的日本和意大利
有否同类的作品
更或者
像我们这种发生了文革的国家
有没有

合上书
抽了下鼻涕
坐在旁边的未成年情侣狂热滴打着波儿
那女的看上去只有12岁
突然觉得很开心
长大
意味着更宽阔的世界

I have heard people getting engaged, married, pragnant so often these days that I began to feel deeply sorry for them. Here's the ten commandments of marrige, which is quite interesting, yet awefully true...

THE TEN COMMANDMENTS OF MARRIAGE

COMMANDMENT 1
Marriages are made in heaven.
But so are thunder and lightning.

COMMANDMENT 2
If you want your wife to listen and pay strict attention to every word you say, talk in your sleep .

COMMANDMENT 3
Marriage is grand -- and divorce is at least 100 grand!

COMMANDMENT 4
Married life is very frustrating.
In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens.
In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens.
In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.

COMMANDMENT 5
When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure
of one thing:
Either the car is new or the wife is.

COMMANDMENT 6
Marriage is when a man and woman become as one;
The trouble starts when they try to decide which one.

COMMANDMENT 7
Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you say.
After marriage, he will fall asleep before you finish .

COMMANDMENT 8
Every man wants a wife who is beautiful, understanding, economical, and a good cook.
But the law allows only one wife.

COMMANDMENT 9
Marriage and love are purely matters of chemistry.
That is why wife treats husband like toxic waste.

COMMANDMENT 10
A man is incomplete until he is married.
After that, he is finished..

昨天走在KFC门口，看见一帮小朋友载哥载舞地表演节目。男孩穿波鞋戴黑超，女孩大露背一对翅膀，背景音乐是：Oops, I did that again... 当场黑线无数……果然，80后小朋友的儿童节和00后小朋友的儿童节是有质的区别滴……

想当年，Adora小朋友上大班的时候，终于能入选幼儿园的舞蹈组，跳了个“闪闪的红星”，举着个大红星满场奔~最后应该是1990年儿童节吧，在海宁剧院作了所谓的汇报演出。后来我安慰自己说，小时候老师不挑我去跳舞不是因为我那时长得不可爱，而是因为我长太高了~ = =|||不过我小时候是挺高的呀！等我回HN后扫几张照片来作证~

其实小时候的儿童节根本就不是什么儿童的节日。书照读学照上作业照样有，没得玩，老爸老妈单位如果发果珍什么的还好，我还能沾点光，如果是发money的话就没我份了。还是长大了好，儿童节想怎么玩就怎么玩。今天我喝了两杯杨汁甘露，吃了一大盆饭，某人在我的提醒下去买了块74cake给我，还买了块tittot的琉璃挂件给我。好大一块葡萄！我说你买这么大一块葡萄干嘛~他说他跑到店里去跟人家说是给小朋友买的，人家就说，那就买块葡萄吧，好彩头。我很无语~葡萄有什么彩头……男人买东西时果然没智商。这么大一块，我是不会带了。直接跟他说不喜欢不要。把他气得不轻。

我现在对葡萄唯一的印象就是：葡萄籽精华里的OPC有超强的抗氧化、清除自由基功能，是VC的20倍，VE的50倍。

这个联想MS跟儿童节的主题很不合……

好吧，如果他EQ高一点，跟我说挂块葡萄也有同样的抗氧化清自由基效果的话，我肯定日夜不离身地挂……

儿童节的时候，其实心生的更多的是：I'm not one of them any more的感慨。

不能没心没肺，为所欲为，只顾自己不顾别人了。肩上的责任已不能由父母帮忙移掉了。虽然我只是一个女孩，但作为家里唯一的小孩，还是应该担起家里的责任。还好，最近爸妈变得比小时候宠我了，那天我跟我妈说：马麻，我要过六一节! 我妈马上说：给你100块，去买点好吃的！

这话要是15年前跟我说我得多开心哪！呵呵~